The temptation at home is there. Besides the non-existent treasures, the most frequent temptation is the presence of a third person. The third person can come from anywhere. Whether they are friends or best friends, family, past, or even childhood friends. There is nothing that is impossible for one person to enter the heart of another. If not approached wisely, it can become one of the things that confuses the home. Worse yet, it can destroy the home itself.
Are you one of those who are in an illicit relationship? You certainly feel bad and guilty, but you are confused how to let it go? Here are some tips you can apply to deal with forbidden love after marriage.
First, you have to be aware of yourself. That everything you do will come back to you. Since other people consider it karma, maybe I think that what we sow, that is what we will reap.
If you are aware of that, you may be wiser to maintain your attitude. Even if nothing is perfect, but you will try to plant and do good things, so that you can also be good. When you do something wrong, you have to worry about getting things that are just as bad or even worse.
2. Remember family
If you are trapped in that forbidden love because the story with your husband is boring, then you should not forget about other people. Especially the children. After that is the family.
Like the essence of marriage, which does not only involve two people, namely you and your partner, the home is actually a melting pot between two families. Therefore, when you betray your marriage, you are not only betraying your partner, but also two families.
3. Strengthen principles
Marriage is a principle, in addition to how the marriage can stand and have principles about the marriage itself, you must have strong principles about how you will take care of your home later on. Before you get married, you and your partner should have strong principles for each other so that when a storm hits your home, you already have the foundation and prevention so the problem doesn’t get worse.
A strong principle is not always intact, there are times when the principle becomes unstable. When that happens, you and your partner need to become a team to strengthen each other. Don’t blame each other. With the strength that weaves, forms and holds together, the home is easier to maintain.
When you are already entangled in an illicit relationship, then you should end it immediately. Whatever your reason, it is not a solution to a problem.
If your partner has shortcomings that must be corrected, then pass it on to them in a good way, do not look for new people to complement what your partner does not have. Because no human being is perfect. A person who has more value than his partner does not have, then he has his own shortcomings.
So those are four ways to resolve illicit relationships at home. May all our homes always be given conditioning and a solution to each problem that arises.